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There is a lot to unpack on this episode of AI. Tahu earns the title of finger expert and our panellists get to kōrero love languages, red flags and seperation. Special guest Anihera Tahu-Hepworth joins the discussion pool and gives us advice on how to identify toxic relationships, tools and tips for leaving or repairing toxic relationships and the importance of self-love.

Let's Talk about Ai - Toxic Relationships

Te kore, Te po, Te ao Marama by Ivy Lyden-Hancy

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In Te kore, Te po, Te ao Marama, 17-year-old poet Ivy Lyden-Hancy's words speak to her identity as a wahine Māori in a changing world. Surrounded by the lasting impacts of colonisation, Ivy paints a picture of the Aotearoa that was, and that one day could be.

In Te kore, Te po, Te ao Marama, poet Ivy Lyden-Hancy's words speak to her identity as a wahine Māori in a changing world.

Te kore, Te po, Te ao Marama - Ivy Lyden-Hancy | The Lowdown Aotearoa

Te kore, Te po, Te ao Marama - Ivy Lyden-Hancy

i walk through concrete rivers 
Wairoa lingering through powerlines
surrounded by rakau 
which has been manufactured 
manipulated 
into the warmth of one’s home 
many homes 
white picket fences and 
sky tower brown 

as i look up to pukekiwiriki 
laying at the sickle of this maunga 
i imagine i am my tupuna
our tangata from before
surrounded by rakau of lush forests 
While melodies of te manu engulf me in its mana 
While wahine moving through grub and fern 
stripping the white man's grass off all infinite crossways 
i replace it with kowhai 
                                  pohutakawa 
                   kauri
pikopiko
all things Māori 

to be Māori is to imagine aotearoa before colonisation 
to be grounded amongst papa 
amongst the kumara pits
their flagstaff will fall 
a tohu that we have taken our whenua back 
our tikanga 
our tangata
holy hands of concrete statues will reach out to me 
amongst the rubble
 they will speak reo pakeha 
a constant reminder of what they have taken from us 

in that we will remove the ink of our ta moko
unbury the mass graves 
remove our taonga from the museums 
reclaim our reo 

they will be at the end of our pū
our rangatira behind us on the path they have paved 
tapu tinana 
tapu wairoa 
aotearoa te tapu whenua 
amene

In 'ii - The Vessel', Laith Alawneh speaks to the whanaungatanga we hold with our whānau, our mātua and our tīpuna, and how our relationships with our loved ones evolve with us as we grow.

Laith is 17 and resides in Tāmaki Makaurau. 

In 'ii - The Vessel', Laith Alawneh speaks to the whanaungatanga we hold with our whānau, our mātua and our tīpuna, and how our relationships with our loved ones evolve with us as we grow.

ii - The Vessel - Laith Alawneh | The Lowdown Aotearoa

ii - The Vessel - Laith Alawneh

Family is a body
a vessel of life
each vein and artery plays a part
with each breath taken
love courses through your vessel
reminding you of who truly loves you
from the day of conceivement 
you were the heart

and your mother’s love flowed through you all the time
you used the wisdom 
that has been passed down through 
generations of warriors to guide you
touch, you learnt your fathers touch in his absence
knowing that it’s okay to be gentle

and you can plaster his pain across your skin but the body finds a way to heal itself
you learn to appreciate his absence
as he has gifted you life, and passed on your mind

as your mother births again, 
she cannot flow her love to you all the time, 

                it would be selfish of her

so your siblings lay in the hand of your vessel 
they help steer through the stormiest nights 
but sometimes they need you to take charge
so you cut them, so they can regrow into a better version of themselves

we take a lot of first breaths: shock, fear, excitement
with the conceivement of your own
the breath you take when you see them
opens your airways to a new dimension 
they become the heart of your vessel
and you breath for them, without them life can not be lived

as time continues
your mother will no longer be able to flow love through your heart 
and slowly the vessel collapses
but you live on in your son’s vessel
and if any part of your vessel is missing, the vessel will collapse
and that’s how life is


In 'NWA', 17-year-old Lisa Tuulima emphasises the importance of friendship as a source of comfort and connection in a world that can often feel isolating. The poem speaks to finding support in each other's company and being able to be yourself without fear of judgement.

In 'NWA', Lisa Tuulima uses the power of spoken word to highlight the unique bond of true friendship and how it provides comfort and connection in a world that can feel isolating. 

NWA - Lisa Tuulima | The Lowdown Aotearoa 

NWA - Lisa Tuulima

Lost
in a world not made for them
thinking all we have is only one another
pieces of ourselves are missing
constantly failing to acknowledge only
I know what pieces fit together
to make me, me
and you, you
to cry without forcing laughter
to drop an outworn mask
is to truly show you the REAL me
it's to show you
I am human
something we use our humour
to replace  
and call "tough love"
the kind of tough love we received growing up
projected all throughout our friendship
with a hit of bus therapy
every now & then
when we realise
we catch up
with everyone else around us
but we never actually catch up
with each other
tho unaware we quite like them
just socially awkward
but we're quite like them
in the crowd 
But it’s less lonely here
Coz at least we have each other
To whisper secrets to through secret glances
And mock each other 


Ever since she was a young child Callida knew she was different to everybody else in her life, but for years she didn't understand what that meant for her. Watch the video to hear Callida share her journey, beginning as a rangatahi, toward understanding and owning her identity as a proud trans wāhine.

Join Callida on her journey towards self-discovery and owning her identity as a proud trans wāhine.

Manioro: Callida's Story | The Lowdown Aotearoa 

Callida's Story

We travel down the path to self-love this episode of AI. Our panellists kōrero whare tapawhā, self-care methods and techniques and more. Māori & Pasifika business owner Arby Manukau talk more to the subject, sharing her personal journey, what self-love means and advice to others on doing the inner work. 

Our panellists discuss where tapawhā, self-care methods and techniques. Arby Manukau, a Māori & Pasifika business owner, shares her personal journey and advice on doing the inner work. 

Let's Talk about Ai: Self Love | The Lowdown Aotearoa 

Let's Talk about Ai - Self Love 

We kōrero all things pēpi! From baby making songs, to being hāpu to parenthood and big responsibilities. Our panellists are joined by Māori midwife Tawera Trinder who tohatohas more about her mahi and delves deeper into tradional Māori birthing practices, lullabys and gives advice for first time expecting parents. 

Join our panellists and Māori midwife Tawera Trinder as they discuss traditional Māori birthing practices, lullabies and offer advice for first-time expecting parents.

Let's Talk about Ai: Hurō! We’re Having a Pēpi! | The Lowdown Aotearoa

Let's Talk about Ai - Hurō! We’re Having a Pēpi!

Did you know we’re actually in a Syphillis epidemic here in Aotearoa? Our panellists take time to kōrero about all the important stuff you need to know in order to keep yourself safe. 

Join our panel as they discuss the ongoing Syphillis epidemic in Aotearoa and share important information on how to protect yourself. From syptoms to treatment options, this episode of Let's Talk About Ai is a must-watch for anyone seeking to stay informed about sexual health. 

Let's Talk About Ai: Syphilis | The Lowdown Aotearoa 

Let's Talk about Ai - Syphilis 

Our panellists break down sexual orientation on this episode of AI. And, with the help of special guest Te Rangitutaki Rolleston we learn about pronouns, how to be come a good ally and some helpful tips to help our e hoas.

Our panellists break down sexual orientation with the help of special guest Te Rangitutaki Rolleston. Learn about pronouns, how to be a good ally and tips for supporting our e hoas.

Let's Talk about Ai: Sexual Orientation | The Lowdown Aotearoa 

Let's Talk about Ai - Sexual Orientation

A ship came into harbour with indigenous sex narratives before colonisation. Our panellists sit down with Tiana Griffin, educator by day and cock and culture owner by night. She shares her knowledge about indigenous ways of thinking about sex, monogamous relationships, cultural revitalisation for ai and her top three tips for decolonising our sex lives. 

Let's Talk about Ai - Traditional Narratives

It’s all about AI this episode. We get to talking fanny flutters, sex toys and find out who on our panel is a giver or reciever. We connect with Terri Ewart, somatic therapist/educator who shares with us interesting facts and figures around foreplay, trauma and tips to have a better sex. 

On this episode of Ai, our panellists discuss fanny flutters, sex toys and foreplay. Somatic therapist/educator Terri Ewart shares interesting facts and figures and offers tips for better sex.

Let's Talk about Ai - Toxic Relationships

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