If something’s upsetting you, it helps to write it down. You can map out what you want and need, and then make a plan on how to sort this out. Just remember:

• Make a time that works for everyone. It’s not going to go well if they’re rushed, stressed or angry
• Find a place where you can have a korero without being disturbed
• Keep it clear and to the point – try to avoid sarcasm and anger
• Respecting what each other has to say is a two way street.